Tuesday, August 28, 2012

My Poor Baby

Wednesday night, Matt was out of town and after coming home from mutual, the boys and I tried to go to bed. After trying to get Tommy to sleep for awhile (he has to have someone in his room with him –usually daddy-to fall asleep and Tyler will just play and scream if he’s in the same room as Tommy)  I decided to finally go and put my pajamas on. Tyler was next to me in the closet. Our dresser drawer was open and I heard it slam shut. Then I heard screaming. Tyler had pushed it shut and it closed so quickly he slipped and hit his head on the corner of it. I quickly picked him up and saw blood dripping all down his face, an awful, awful sight. This was 10:30 pm. I put pressure on it and Tyler calmed down after a few minutes. It’s amazing how much blood come out of the head. You would have thought the cut was across his entire head. It was actually about an inch in length.  It seemed to have stopped bleeding, he didn’t lose consciousness, he didn’t vomit, and his pupils were the same size so…after calling Matt we tried to go to bed, again. I kept waking up every hour, worrying about him and feeling so bad about it. At about 4:30 am I decided to change his band-aid. I thought it looked more red then before. I woke up again at 6:30 am and saw there was more blood on the band-aid. It wasn’t soaked but the bleeding definitely hadn’t stopped. I felt sick about it and decided to wake both boys up and head to the ER. Tommy was so good the entire time, despite being sleepy. When we made it to BSA there was no one in the waiting room and after a few questions from the nurse and vitals taken, we were quickly into a room. Then the waiting began. Another nurse came in to get insurance information and then we waited more. Tyler was acting fine and actually walking out of the room constantly (it’s just a curtain separating the rooms from the lobby). After an hour and a half from arriving, we finally saw a doctor. He was really nice and after looking at it, said he was surprised I didn’t immediately rush in after it happened. I then said, “I would have come right in! but I thought it had stopped bleeding and he was ok! He then said, “No I mean I’m impressed. Most parents freak out over nothing”….He said it was a pretty good cut but most of the time cuts can go up to 12 hours without stiches or glue.” And that’s what he had done. They did a skin glue and put a band-aid on it and he was good to go. He cried but was such a trooper!
After knowing he was ok, I asked about the scarring. He said it will be very very minimal especially as he grows. He also said after about 5 days, put sunscreen on it every time he’s outside, up until November, to keep it from scarring and yes,  he’ll still go to promSmile. That made me laugh….a delirious laugh from being so tired. We left there at 8:30 am. Tommy was still lively and awake, and since arriving at the hospital when it was dark, and coming out when it was light, he said enthusiastically. “Mommy! I don’t have to sleep again because it’s DAY TIME!”  He was out  like a light before arriving homeSmile They both were.
  Here are some photos, not of the actually gash (that makes my stomach churn)
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Still sleepySmile
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And one to end on-
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I’m so thankful my sweet baby is ok!

Friday, August 24, 2012

Summer Update

2 weeks ago Matt started his new work schedule (that he proposed for his department and was approved) 4 ten hour days, getting Fridays off. Originally it was planned to be 4 nine hour days and getting every other Friday off….That schedule I liked, but the 4-10’s I wasn’t a fan of at first. I thought the days would be too long and Matt would be So tired come Friday. It hasn’t been too bad though. Unfortunately he  has already been putting in those hours anyway…. Everyone assured me on facebook it was going to be great for him to have those Fridays off…much better than every other Friday, so….you have to trust FB, right? Winking smile
UPDATE** since writing this draft post, Matt's schedule has been changed to nine eighties, getting everyother Friday off. Apparently it was too hard having only two managers there on Fridays or Mondays.  Oh well...

Tyler had another ear infection, shortly after seeing Dr. Wright and deciding we didn’t need tubes….We had to go to an urgent care because he was up all night on a Friday. He finished an antibiotic and we went to his regular doctor to have his ear rechecked. She said they were a little red (from a current cold) but they weren’t infected….Tubes is probably the route we’re going to take pretty soon.  At this check up I finally got Tyler’s one year stats. I’ve been wanting to compare them with Tommy’s -

Tyler’s one year stats-
Weight: 21.9 lbs. (60%)
Height: 30.25 inches (67%)
Head: 18.75 inches (89%)

Tommy’s one year stats-
Weight: 21.5 lbs.
Height: 30.5

Tyler’s now surpassed his ‘little’ bro in weightSmile

July 1st- his bottom right tooth popped through
August 3rd-his 1st bottom left molar popped in
August 16th- his bottom left tooth is popping through (just noticed)
(it's no wonder he's been extremely cranky lately!)

  • Tyler likes to ‘wash’ his hands. If I don’t keep my eye on him, he’ll be trying to lift the toilet seat up and sticking his hands in there ugh… so I’m washing his hands often and as soon as I put the soap on them, he rubs his hands together. Cute
  • As soon as I’m done changing his diaper he grabs it and wants to throw it in the garbage. (another reason I’m constantly washing his hands)
  • While in the car, trying to keep my sanity from the yelling fest, I started singing wheels on the bus. When we got to the money verse (clink clink clink) Tyler thought it was hilarious! And he does the action.
  • Tyler just started saying, ‘woof’  when we ask, What does a doggy say?
  • He also does the itsy bitsy spider action while changing his diaper and I think he tries to sing it…at least he makes some cute sounds while doing the action.
  • I’m still trying to wean this momma’s boy. He now pulls at my shirt when he wants to nurse and gets VERY upset when I don’t immediately appease his request! (I’ve noticed he wants to more often when his teeth are bothering him)

Tommy-
  • It’s been a battle to get Tommy to eat the last month and a half. All he wants to do it play, play, play!
  • Loves swords swords and swords, and always wants to play swords (does not own a sword but apparently anything can be turned into one) Tommy and Tyler have sword fights with the fly swatters!
  • He says ‘huh’ after lots of things he says. It’s as if he’s saying ok, but his tone is in the form of a question. Like he’s wanting you to agree with him.  Ex. That ball went far, huh?!
  • Tommy’s in the ‘Watch this, mommy’ stage. Everything he does is so awesome I need to see it…everything.
  • Tommy said this to me one day and  specifically the way he said it made me laugh, “I picked something up for you! It’s the spookiest thing you ever know! Do you like spooky?”
Some videos with the iphone over the past few months:
Tyler LOVES the swings


This was at Nana's when he just decided to start walking:)



 
I had more videos but they weren't downloading...all for another update;)


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The library’s police man/k-9 day, where there was no k-9 because apparently he had to be in court. ?what?! But they did make some official badgesSmile
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At the Discovery Center-Robots exhibit
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*eating frozen grapes with the little fish!
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More music class. Tommy LOVED playing a real violin. For months, he has used other toys, putting them to his chin, pretending to play one. This and the drums have been his favorite.
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I was playing baseball with Tommy and when he went to get the ball, his foot fell into this hole in our backyard. Matt was out of town and we were talking to him on the phone at the time. He had me take a picture of it, wanting to see the depth of the hole. Later, we found out it was covering a sprinkler pipe and tommy had just pushed the cover down into it. Pretty crazy!
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Tyler having a tricky time going down the slide by himself. He managed it though!
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I love this picture. I love Tommy’s facial expression. He shared his ice cream with no prompts from me…I wish that happened more often;)
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Tyler and Daddy watching the Olympics. Tommy has liked watching them too, trying to jump, run, ‘swim’ just like the Olympians in London.
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Flies have been all over the place and if we go out the door for a split second, a bunch find their way in. Tyler’s been watching us and knows how to handle those swatters-two at a time!IMG_0712
Some of our days…..why? who knows…..
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Tyler finally prefers to walk instead of crawl and now he’ll walk around like this, especially when he gets tired. He also throws himself on the floor and cries if I don’t pick him up right away or he gets hurt….it’s kind of funny, actually-cute at this age. Tommy’s?-not so much.
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Sunday, August 12, 2012

Picking up Tom Tom

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This little dude left with Mimi and Nana to Ruidoso after their visit for his soccer game. If anyone recalls, he did this last year too and let’s just say I had a bit of a hard time with it. You can read about it here. After having done this again I can absolutely say it was due to post pregnancy hormones. This time the only reason I hesitated was because he had been up the night before with a cold and cough. He said he still wanted to go and I was fine with it. Mimi said he did really well. They played golf a lot, had plenty of Sonic ‘spicy’ drinks (sprite is his new favorite), held one of Roddy’s nice cats, and fought with Buster, I heard. They have a love/hate relationship. That week I was able to give Tyler lots of one on one time and even get some organizing/decorating done around the house during his naps-without feeling like I was neglecting Tommy! We did miss our Tom Tom though and Tyler would occasionally crawl into his room looking for him :(  I’m glad Tommy had a good time though. We left Thursday evening (Matt now has Friday’s off, working 4 ten hour days) and met up with our little goober late that night. It was sure good to have him back!

Dylan and Tommy in their matching PJ’s
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We got to see Lori, Maggie, Joey, Autrey, Shilo, Dylan, and Baby Colton too! Tyler started kicking the soccer ball around like a pro, and then shared with sweet JoeySmile
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An hilarious moment-After Shilo layed Colton down for some tummy time, Joey felt it was his turn and layed right down on his belly like he was supposed to. Tyler thought he needed to be covered up, but Joey knew that wasn’t the purpose of the blanket and quickly layed it down flat again. I was excited to see these two together seeing as how it had been 6 months since the last time we were together, and they were quite funny!
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Joey, being the ‘older’ cousin took care of Tyler by giving him his sippy cup, trying to give a drink….every few seconds. Tyler wasn’t having any of it and Joey couldn’t understand why-it was yummy juice!
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It was great to finally meet sweet baby Colton in person! He is a mini-Dylan for sure and oh so precious!
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More cousin time, looking out Nana’s window
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Late Saturday night the nakie boys had a quick snack of strawberries before bed. Thumbs up delish!
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After church-our attempts at a grandkids pic…poor Tyler. I made it up for this torture with a donut afterwards….
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All better!
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The boys went golfing a couple times and we all just hung out most of the time. It was a short but fun weekend with everyone!